Note to Self: Single Isabel to Coupled Isabel

My Darling,

Look how far you've come. First off, I wanted to congratulate you for making it this far. For the courage to open up to something beautiful. Hopefully this means you've learned to dance through life (with a partner) and play nicely and to love with more of yourself. I hope he (or she) is wonderful and kind and beautiful and warm.

Don't forget how much you love your life. Don't forget to dream for yourself even after learning how to dream with another and for another. Don't forget how beautiful your dreams are. Don't forget to dream big when you can and don't forget to be practical too. Don't forget to keep some dreams for yourself but not in a selfish way. This is you remembering that you are your own. These little dreams will guide you back to you.

Don't forget to daydream. Don't forget you've always wanted children but also give yourself the chance to change your mind too. Don't forget to give yourself the chance to change your mind on anything. Be gentle with yourself.

Don't forget how much you like your solitude. Remember to honor it. Remember to enjoy it. But remember not to get lost in it. Remember to come out into the world again. Live knowing that you can always come back to that solitude, that you are here and there and everywhere.

Don't forget to give in to your curiosity once in a while. Know which ones are worth it and which ones aren't. Be smart about it. Remember that curiosity is your way of experiencing romance and adventure for yourself. Curiosity is essential to your spirit.

Dont forget how great it will be no matter what happens. Dont forget life always works itself out. Dont forget to be grateful. Remember your place in eternity. Eternity is our inheritance. Joy is your essence.

I wish you joy and love and power and beauty and learning. The truth is you are already all of these.

XOXO